Monday, February 21, 2011

the intelligent man

I just read an interesting tidbit in Esquire magazine.   It was a little sidebar type thing from a man who said his crush on Megan Fox is over.   The reason:  she said in an interview that her farts smell like chinese food after she eats chinese.    Smart man.   Here's the thing.    When men see a beautiful woman they start making thing up in their heads about what this woman is like and that she would be sooo perfect for them.    But the bottom line is they think she's hot and they want to do her.    The thought process  moves from the head on their shoulders to the head in their pants.     All men have done this.   Stupid men.

An intelligent man can look at a beautiful woman simply for the beauty.   But at that point let it drop.     An intelligent man finds a beautiful woman and learns to love her laugh, the way she likes to have picnics in the park every time it's forecast to rain.   An intelligent man knows about this woman, not just making things up in his mind about her.    An intelligent man knows that her beauty is not superficial, but is part of her being.  She is smart, caring, loving and giving.   An intelligent man loves everything about her.   An intelligent man marries her.

Blessings,
Van

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